We all work hard, harder and harder and harder to give our
families a lavish lifestyle. We also hope to spend a quality retirement life
with them. But how does one define this comfortable lifestyle?
- What if I don't have a mobile that costs more than 10k?
- What if I don't drive a luxury car?
- What if I don't shop from malls where the world shops?
- What if I don't eat at the lavish looking restaurants?
But,
- What if I get to have dinner with family every night?
- What if I get an hour with family every day before retiring to bed and talk about just nothing?
- What if I get 2 vacations in a year with family where I don't need to worry about work?
I may not be living a lavish lifestyle but I definitely am
living a much more happy and content lifestyle.
One needs to plan for the future for sure but giving up your
present for the future is definitely not wise. One can never be sure about the
future. One can never take it for granted. You may end up never seeing that
future that you may be giving up your present for. And, what you miss while you
have been working harder and harder and harder is sure gone forever.
Yes, there are exceptions to every rule but one needs to
judiciously distinguish between the need and greed. The best way to do this is
ask yourself – do I need what I am using and am I doing it for myself or for showing it to others?